Tuesday, March 29, 2016

Transition from 3 to 4

Well...the first month after having Lucy was amazing. I had help the first two weeks from Grandma's and Cade and Boose and the next two weeks were also great. Lucy is a pretty good baby and each of the older three were such good helpers, playing with each other so well, and everything was going SO much smoother than I expected! But then...after one month for some reason the girls started fighting a lot, crying a lot and just so emotional and needy. Yep! That's more like it :). Exactly what I expected!

Lucy is still a good baby- wakes up a couple times in the night, feeds every 3 hours during the day, is pretty content and happy (except for a couple hours every evening), breast feeds really well. We were very blessed with a good baby! The older girls I think finally "had enough" of less attention from mom- especially sweet Nora! Who is not ALWAYS so sweet anymore :). She is having a rough time and asking me 24/7 "play me? Play me?" She has started not sleeping as well, which she has ALWAYS been an amazing and easy sleeper. But nonetheless the transition to a baby sister has kicked in...for all of us. It was bound to happen as it does with every baby. And now I am writing this post as I suffer from Mastitis. Yay! The joys of motherhood and a newborn.

With all that said, would I do this all over again? Of course!!! Little Lucy (or Lu Lu as Reese now calls her) is such a blessing in our lives and I am so grateful Heavenly Father has blessed us with another beautiful, healthy baby girl! We are SO blessed!
















Daddy took them on a hike while i was in the hospital. Forgot there would be tons of snow still! 



Lucy Ann Close is Born!!!



Birth story

Cade and I went in to the Dr office on the 10th. Two days from my due date. I was expecting the Dr to strip my membranes but wasn't aware that since I tested positive for Group B Strep, that he couldn't do that. But he asked me if I wanted to be induced and him break my water. I said I had a C-section so I wouldn't be able to be induced, right? He said since I had two successful VBACS and was dialated to a 3 that he didn't see any issues with it. The Dr said they would start me at the lowest amount of pitocin possible. Cade and I agreed to be induced the following day.

I was told that night of the doctors appointment that they could call any time after 5:00 am the next morning. So naturally I woke up about every hour in the night looking at my clock. We got a call at 8:15 that morning and went to hospital at 9:15. We got all initial things done and they started me on the smallest dose of pitocin at 10:30. I Was dialated to a 3 when they started the pitocin.

Contractions were pretty consistent but not a lot of dialating was happening. I took the doctors advice and got the epidural before he came to break my water. The epidural was one of the worst parts this time around. He had struck a nerve or something and had really sharp pain in my back for several minutes. But then the Dr came in at 12:45 to break water. After about an hour was at 5 (1:40).

I had texted Boose that at the rate I was progressing she could probably make it for the delivery after work. I was hoping I was wrong but didn't see a lot happening to my contractions and my body.

The nurse increased the pitocin gradually to a 6 or 7 over time but Dr said to stop pitocin all together when my contractions were happening strong and consistent. Luckily the Dr convinced me to get the epidural before he broke my water. If I hadn't listened to him there's no way I would have had time to get one after breaking my water.

Only 20 min later (after texting Boose) at 2:00 I felt great pressure and pain and felt like I needed to start pushing. Nurse checked me and I was complete. At 10 cm. She said "oh yeah, you're complete. I'll call the doctor!"  I said I wasn't sure if the doctor would be able to make it. She left and a couple contractions later I told Cade that I felt like baby needed to come! He panicked and called on the intercom "baby is coming! We need someone in here". He said no way was he delivering the baby alone. That sent a good panic and five nurses and midwife rush in. They thought baby was on the table already delivered. The midwife told me that the Dr was just a few doors down delivering another baby. I didn't know if I could hold off but I waited a few min until he came in.

After Dr came in and suited up, I pushed a few times and baby girl was out. I tore some and Dr stitched me up.

I loved doing skin to skin time with her for about an hour after. The nurses laid her on my chest and I finally got to hold our little girl.

Overall, everything went great. It was a little too fast at the end and I had some bleeding concerns (just too much bleeding for them to take me off the IV), but baby Lucy was healthy and strong and my recovery has been pretty pain free.

The amount of immediate love I think becomes greater with every child because you can see through your other children the potential they have and the amount of joy they bring to your life and family. I am so grateful for eternal families and the plan our Father in Heaven has for us.

Two days before Lucy was born:







We have a baby with hair!!



The girls came to visit me and their new baby sister that evening. Nora seemed to do just fine and wasn't scared with me in a hospital bed hooked up to machines. I don't think she really understood that Lucy was now a part of our family but it was cute watching her hold her :). 













More newborn pictures (none edited):










Man, taking pictures of all 4 girls is not easy :). Most of them ended up like this one:


Daughter Dates!

One of our favorite things lately is doing Daddy-Daughter and Mommy-Daughter dates with our girls. They ask all the time when they get to do the next one. Some of them have included Chuck E cheese (not my favorite place), swimming, Classic Skating, the Library, Eating Pizza out, shopping for new shoes, and usually ends in dessert.

We will start doing them with Nora real soon because she knows it's something the older sisters get to do and love.
It's really important for us to have that one-on-one time with each of them and be able to talk about school, friends, and things they love. We hope that we can continue to do them even with more and more children. We love that one on one time!




Family bowling activity! We got a sitter just for little Lucy and took the older three out for a fun time.